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Passing It On

The older I get, the more I realize there are folks who have invested in my life whom I know I could never repay.  

When my new best friend, Pan (don't dare call her "Pam") invited me to church where her daddy was the preacher, I went.  As far as I remember,  the first time I heard him share the Gospel, I committed my life to Christ.  It didn't matter that I was only nine and didn't fully understand.  I knew I needed forgiveness, and Brother Jackson told me where to find it.

Everybody? Not on My Watch.

I wanted to ride my bike to the mall with my BFF when I was about 12.  My mother saidno.  

I told hereverybodyrode their bikes to the mall. 

"And if everybody jumped off a cliff, would you jump, too?" she asked.  

Why do all my friends' mothers say that? I thought. 

When I was 17, a guy who was well over 21 asked me on a date.  My mother said I had to wait until I was 18 to go out with him.  So I did. 

In college, a foreign student invited me to his apartment.

Gait Changes

For twenty five years I have been raising kids, frequently feeling stuck in a time warp much like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day.  As soon as one child gains a little independence, another arrives.  But lately I have had such a sense of time and the inevitable changes it brings.  Three kids have left the nest, and three more are perched on the branch, preparing to fly.  Some still a few years away, but I know it will seem like no time at all.

Looking out the window on the way to church Sunday morning, I caught a glimpse of an elderly gentleman ambling toward a cemetery.

Cleaning House

I have blogged many times about how order escapes me.  Now that three of my kids are grown, I remind myself that they turned out well in spite of my quirky disorganized ways. Besides, I tell myself, I have ten kids, and who (except Mrs. Duggar) could be organized with ten kids?  Nevertheless, I am constantly trying to improve my methods, and this week I reviewed a book that is truly helpful. 

Cleaning House by Kay Wills Wyma takes a new approach to organization. She goes an impressive step further--not only helping her five kids to get organized, but also helping them to get over themselves.

Organized Schmorganized

I have a confession to make:  I despise organization.
 
Don't misunderstand.  I would love tobeorganized.  But I am convinced my abilities are limited.
 
Getting ready for church, for example, was a nightmare when I lived in the Bible Belt back when church attire was in a class by itself.   Finding shoes and socks that matched 18 feet was a routine Sunday morning frustration--also in a class by itself..  One morning we were down to the wire and I was frantically throwing shows out of the shoe basket, crying, "I
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