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Baby Boot Camp

Hope is six months old. 
I adore her. We all do. She is the princess of the family.
But Hope doesn't sleep.  In fact, none of my babies have slept on their own. I always, without exception, have to teach them.
"Both my babies slept all night from the time they were born," a friend told me the other day.  A friend always tells me that when I complain about my non compliant infant. And while I am sincerely glad for them, it has never happened for me.
Time for Baby Boot Camp. 
Don't worry.  BBC isn't as bad as it sounds.  In fact, though I came up with the name, my pediatrician from way back when Ben (16) was a non complier is the one who enlightened me.
Is he cooing and laughing?  she asked.  Check.
Sitting up a little?  Check.
Reaching for objects? Check.
How does he sleep?
I told the truth:  He doesn't.
"Let me tell you how to fix that," she said.
You mean you can fix it? I answered.  Ben was my 4th, and I hadn't slept in ten years--since my first one had arrived.
"It will take three nights," she began, advising me to start with the same ritual every night which sends a signal, she said, that it is time to go to sleep.  (I've been singing Jesus Loves Me in the rocker ever since.) She then advised me to lay him down while he was still awake and leave the room.  "It will take three nights of crying," she said, warning me that if I pick him up on the second or third night, I would lose whatever ground I had gained.
Within a few days, I tried it.  Not to say it was easy--it was hard to let him cry.  I would go in every ten minutes or so and give him the pacifier (I've used a paci with all of mine).  "But don't pat him and whatever you do, don't pick him up,"  the doctor  had ordered.  The first night it took an hour or so. The second about half an hour, and the third night just a few fussy minutes.  I was amazed.
That was sixteen years and six kids ago and it has worked every time.  Occasionally I have had it take longer than three nights, but sometime after five months old but before they begin to pull up and yell, "Mama!"  I hold Baby Boot Camp.  It has to be some of the best advice a pediatrician has ever given me, and I pass it on whenever I can.
So now that Hope is six months old (I can seldom do it before six months), it is her turn very soon.  I dread it. (I always dread it), but I do begin to feel human again after the baby is sleeping all night.
And with six other kids at home,  I think everyone in our house would agree it is about time I rejoined the human race.
Hope at six months--
even a princess has to report to BBC.

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Emerine on Saturday, July 07, 2012 2:11 PM
She is beautiful Margie! I never called it BBC, but I have the 3 night rule too!!!! And I used it with all 3 of mine (seems so minimal compared to 10). The night of 3's works for just about anything. I'm sure Miss Hope will fall in line just like the rest! ;) Enjoy the snuggling! And give her lots of extra hugs from those of us that missed out on squeezing her!
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margie on Sunday, July 08, 2012 10:55 AM
Hi Em I can see you getting your hands on this baby! Know you would love holding her. Hope you are adjusting to your new surroundings. God bless you!

Melinda Ziskinder on Saturday, July 07, 2012 2:13 PM
I think I did that with Adam and Ryan way back when but I honestly can't remember anymore. It's all a haze! Look at Hope! Beautiful! Are you all still in town? We are home the next couple weekends so let me know if you want to bring kids over to swim. would love to have you. sorry haven't been in touch sooner- crazy summer. text or call me 201-2444 -Melinda
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margie on Sunday, July 08, 2012 10:54 AM
Hi Melinda so glad you got in touch. Yes we are still here and would love to swim! Thanks I will call you!

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