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Meet Mom Dot

There are two kinds of grandparents, someone said, the lonely and the tired. 

Meet Mom Dot, who turns 86 today, and is part of the latter group.  

Captain Fun and I married when we were just 20 and 21, and Mom Dot gave me her stamp of approval right from the start.  I had had my eye on him for over a year, in fact, and it was at her suggestion that he finally called and asked me out.  I owe her for that one. 

I remember when we found out we were expecting our first child just a few months after we were married.  Still a new bride, I was a little nervous about what everyone would say about us starting a family so soon.  We had all gathered at my sisters for Labor Day when the Captain and I announced we had a little announcement.  Mom Dot threw two fists into the air like she had just won a boxing match.  She has told me many times over the years that the grand kids brought the sunshine back into her life after the death of her husband just two years prior.  

In Sims' family tradition, we gathered around the lunch table today to say "What We Like About You".   The list was long:  comfort, affirmation, generosity, energy, and the way she never fails to ask how everybody's day was.  And always her sense of humor.  I know of no one else, for instance, who deliberately put the wrong year on their head stone.  "I only made myself one year younger," she scolds herself, "I should have taken off five or ten years!" 

"You're a fierce grandmother," I said when it was my turn, to which all the kids agreed.  Coaches be warned if you don't give one of the grand kids enough playing time. Mom Dot will be at the game, and she'll be watching. My list goes on: she buys all the chips, treats the kids to McDonald's every Saturday night so Captain Fun and I can go out to dinner, and folds all the laundry--including matching socks for twenty feet.  "And I love the way you pray," I added.  (I should note that this list is not in the order of importance.)

The Captain said she was always the favorite mom in the neighborhood when he was growing up.  And when one of the kids complimented him on his vocabulary this week, he reminded them who raised him.  Mom Dot would not tell this so I will--She scored on the Mensa level on the IQ test years ago. Even now she can still quote lengthy passages from Shakespeare. 

After everyone was finished, she had a thing or two to say.  "I love all the compliments, but just look, just look at my grand kids," here she paused and gestured around the table, "I have the most wonderful,  best looking grand kids in the world and it is an easy task to love all of you." 

If every grandparent was like Mom Dot, there would only be one category of grandparents: the loved.  

Thank you, Mom Dot, for loving your ten grandchildren so freely. 

Mom Dot with nine of the ten grandkids. She object to having her picture taken so this is my most recent shot.

10 Comments to Meet Mom Dot:

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Toby Stewart on Sunday, November 04, 2012 7:24 PM
What a wonderful reflection of a beautiful person. The warmth of Mrs. Sims is obvious to all who are fortunate enough to spend time with her and those who haven't, can feel it after reading Margie's wonderful blog. I feel blessed to know Mrs. Sims. She has a unique way of making me feel better about myself each time we visit. I enjoy every conversation about civil war heroes, Yankee baseball players, and our families. Mrs. Sims generously shares specific and uplifting words of affirmation with her family and friends during each encounter. Her heart is over flowing with love and affection for her beautiful family. I look forward to my next visit, when I'll once again get moved by the flood of warmth and love.
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margie on Monday, November 05, 2012 11:37 AM
Thank you, Toby! I am going to pass this on to her. It will make her so happy.

margie on Monday, November 05, 2012 11:38 AM
Maybe we will see you next summer. Two class reunions!

Debbie on Monday, November 05, 2012 3:27 AM
What a wonderful tribute from a daughter-in-law! You are lucky and she is blessed to be so close to y'all! Love ya! Deb
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Barbara Smith on Monday, November 12, 2012 9:53 AM
I miss you Mom Dot...and that gorgeous family of yours! I praise God for your sharp mind, your warmth & instant friendship & how much you remind me of my Nana, who has been in heaven for several years now! Your legacy will live on in a beautiful way times 12 because of those amazing people that are blessed enough to get to call you theirs! XOXO Much love today and always!! Barbara
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margie on Friday, November 16, 2012 11:10 AM
She misses Florida and talks about FBC Stuart all the time. Love you, Barb!

Kelsey Hancock on Wednesday, November 21, 2012 1:43 PM
I will never forget how when I was a teenager babysitting for you (and had little to no sense of self worth whatsoever) she told me I was absolutely beautiful...and that nice girls should not leave the house without some lipstick. As I grew, I started finally figuring out how to dress/look nice and I remembered her words, so now I always put on at least a little lip gloss before I leave the house. I think of her every time I do!
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Margie on Wednesday, November 28, 2012 12:02 PM
Just found this recently, Kelsey! I will pass it on to her. Thank you. She will love it!

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